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Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Het is makkelijk om een emotionele verbinding met mijn partner te krijgen.<br>Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mijn partner laat me merken dat ik bij hem\/haar op de eerste plaats sta.<br>Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik voel me niet alleen of buitengesloten in onze relatie. Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik kan mijn diepste gevoelens met mijn partner delen. Hij\/zij luistert naar<br>me. Waar\/Onwaar<br>Is vanuit jouw optiek je partner ontvankelijk voor je?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Als ik behoefte heb aan verbondenheid en troost, staat hij\/zij voor me<br>klaar. Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mijn partner reageert op signalen dat ik zijn\/haar nabijheid nodig heb.<br>Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik weet dat ik op mijn partner kan steunen als ik bang of onzeker ben.<br>Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ook als we ruzie hebben of het niet met elkaar eens zijn, weet ik dat ik<br>belangrijk ben voor mijn partner en dat we er wel weer uit zullen komen.<br>Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Als ik geruststelling nodig heb dat ik belangrijk ben voor mijn partner, dan<br>kan ik die krijgen. Waar\/Onwaar<br>Zijn jullie op een positieve manier emotioneel bij elkaar betrokken?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik voel me heel sterk op mijn gemak dicht bij mijn partner en ik vertrouw<br>hem\/haar. Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik kan mijn partner zo goed als alles toevertrouwen. Waar\/Onwaar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ik vertrouw erop, ook als we niet samen zijn, dat we met elkaar in<br>verbinding staan. 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